the pressure to have the best first impressions, to present yourself, to not say too much but not too little. the dam pressure that even if you don't like them you want to be so very badly liked by them. it should be called a "judge" not a "date".
Soooo... i was also thinking how good couples look good together, its like if the puzzle fits, i don't mean they have to have the same colour hair or the same theme to them, but they just fit, the walk at the same speed, they hold each other in the right spots, they look at each other like they are the only ones there. it is quite beautiful to watch 2 young people in love and absolutely incredible to watch 2 old people in love, they just become "one" and it is incredible,amazing, wonderful and simply lovely. you can always judge when 2 people don't love each other and you know how some people just go out together just for the sake of it and everyone knows they can cheat and they don't see their partner as the only one in the room but just part of everything. also the way a boy treats a girl he loves , he will unconsciously hold the door open or swing it open in front of her if he can open and hold it for her, he will be creative in order to stay with her somewhere, i love the way he's hands will fit on her hips perfectly, when you walk the same pace and rhythm. when they pay for the principle of a gentlemen, when they feed you..honestly what is better then been in love? please tell me? i don't think everyone will find it, and i think with each relationship love gets stronger or you realise what love it comparing each to the other. all is well when love is present and all is shit as fuck when its not there....regardless if its from a guy, a girl or family, no matter how hard you can convince yourself that you are happy alone, your not, you either don't know what can be better or you are in denial. sorry.
this is love:
my youngest sister..she thought this was the coolest thing EVER.
just makes me happy to look at it :)
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